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    Thursday 12 March 2015

    MEET BUNMI ALABI


    Olubunmi Akin- Alabi is the cordinator of Single & Special. She is a mum of two cute boys with a wonderful husband, Akin Alabi(The ace video maker), together they make up the music group, T.I.V. She is an event caterer, an entrepreneur, and a goal-getter. She feels fulfilled anytime she finds herself in the midst of youths encouraging them on relationship and how to bring out the best in them...

    As earlier implied, she is the visioneer of SINGLE AND SPECIAL BULLETIN,  a platform for  singles with the aim of helping them live a maximized and fulfilled life.
    Bunmi Alabi is a lover of good music, has a passion for youths and strongly loves and believes in God.
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    Work
    OCCUPATION
    Relationship Counselor, Event manager, Caterer, Blogger, Fashion designer Music artist
    EMPLOYMENT
    • Single & Special
      Irresistible foods
      Event catering services, 2009 - present

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      Education
      • University of Ilorin
        Industrial Chemistry, 2002 - 2005
      • University of Ibadan
        Environmental Chemistry, 2007 - 2008
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        Basic Information
        Gender
        Female

        Birthday
        February 27
        Relationship
        Married
        Other names
        Tomilola
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    HARLOT TO HEROINE


    Joshua had just conducted his 1st cabinet meeting since been appointed as the successor to Moses by God and had received matching orders to move into their next level as a nation. 40 years of wilderness experience had just ended and they were about to take Canaan, the land flowing with milk and honey promised to them by God.

    Joshua commissioned a 2-man secret mission to go check Jericho out. Jericho was to be their next conquest and it was a city with fortified walls, high and impenetrable. The kind that if God doesn’t help one, penetrating will be impossible.
    On their arrival, the Agents went to Rahab’s house. Rahab is a prostitute. *Na wa o* isn’t that our standard response when we see/hear something that is out of the ordinary. I know what you are thinking, “wetin concern ashewo inside this matter?” but let’s think strategically for a minute.
    I can bet sex was the last thing on their mind, survival and the success of their mission sounds more likely. Plus they were bound to get solid/authentic intel from her because of her clientele and the location of her house.
    Rahab’s brothel/house had a good view of the City because it was strategically located on the City Wall hence it was under 24-7 surveillance. I know this because the State Secret Service in Jericho notified their king of the arrival of those spies within a short time.
    Meanwhile its either the agents had levelled up with Rahab as per their mission or Rahab was so street-smart and aware that she knew that their city was next on the Isrealites’s agenda. She testified to the agents of the great miraculous works she had heard and believed that the God of Isreal did for the Isrealites, how every nation was living in fear of them because none could withstand their might and the God that was fighting for and with them, even helped them cross the notorious Red Sea. She knew it was only a matter of time before Jericho will be conquered; she quickly thought to cut a deal with the Isrealite agents, safety in exchange for her life and her families’ life. She hid them on top of her roof under some bundles of linen she laid there. The kings’ goons ransacked everywhere and didn’t see the agents.  
    King’s men: “Rahab, where are the expatriates that came to patronise you few hours ago?”
    Rahab: “Your Majesty, the men came for quickies and were gone in no time, I think they are from Egypt, I’m not sure though. I tried to flirt with them to make them stay longer but they left saying they were trying to beat the rush-hour traffic that happens when the City gate is locked. Your Majesty, if your men move fast, they’ll catch up with them”.
    Ah! They fell for it. They sent men in pursuit and soon after the City Gate was locked for the day.
    So the deal was that for her kindness to the Isrealite agents, her house will be spared when they invade Jericho, they had diplomatic immunity. Then she stealthily lowered them out through a window with a red rope. Told them to go to the mountains and hide for 3 days before heading back to their base and reporting everything that happened to Joshua.
    Later on when Joshua led his people back to destroy Jericho, only Rahab and her family were spared because that red rope became the symbol to identify her house with. I wonder how Rahab was able to convince her family to stay with her in her house. Some may have mocked her. The red rope was all she had as evidence. Naturally, having nowhere else to go, Rahab joined the Isrealites, and later on married Salmon and gave birth to Boaz. Boaz married Ruth and gave birth to Obed. Obed gave birth to Jesse and Jesse is the father of David. Jesus is of the lineage of David.
    What is more beautiful is that Rahab (Boaz’s mum) is one of the 5 women (Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, Bathsheba and Mary) specially mentioned that were in the lineage of Jesus Christ. Who would have thought?
    “By faith Rahab the prostitute did not perish with those who were disobedient, because she had given a friendly welcome to the spies.”
    “And in the same way was Rahab the prostitute also justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out by another way.”
    So one right decision can erase a life time of wrong living. Therefore take a bold step of accepting Christ into your life today because He is the only one who can bring out the best in you.
    Lessons learnt:
    1. Even though she lived an ungodly life, her act of kindness was so strategic that it helped the Isrealites to enter the Promised Land.
    2. In the best way she knew how to, she saved the lives of those spies.
    3. She was not selfish. She somehow got her family to believe her and by so doing saved their lives.
    4. She later changed her life and embraced God and his word so much that she was able to marry a prominent Isrealite.
    5. Don’t write anyone off. God never writes anyone off. God hates our sin but loves the sinner and wants us to come to Him in repentance and change our ways.
    * Reference: The Bible. The Book of Joshua Chapters 1 – 2 & 6; Hebrews 11:31; Matthew 1:1 – 16; James 2:25
    *“wetin concern ashewo inside this matter?” - of what concern is the matter to a prostitute?

    NEWS ::: SAS set to host their first singles summit in January 2014


    Single and Special is set to host her first Singles Summit this January, 2014. We will be having lots of fun and also giving singles the opportunity to connect with one of gospel's top female artiste, Pat Uwaje King. She made a name for herself when she sang the popular song, Igwe with Midnite Crew.

    Watch out for more details on this programme. In the mean time, enjoy her latest video titled EZE.
    Click here to watch Pat Uwaje-king"s new video EZE

    LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX!


    Single and Special presents her first Single's seminar, titled "LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX". A programme that promises to be interactive and insightful. Our special guest is one of the topmost Nigerian gospel female artiste, PAT UWAJE-KING(MIDNITE CREW).Also Mrs Fawole as the speaker of the day. Date;25th of January 2014 @ Tasty Fried Chicken, Ogba, by 12pm. First 50people to arrive @ the venue stand a chance of winning a special gift in the raffle draw.Singles,you can't afford to miss this!

    WHAT MEN DESIRE MOST IN A WOMAN


    Many ladies are getting it wrong when it comes to some feminine qualities desired by men,it is outrageous that majority spend much on themselves just to look and presentable.Yes those things are good but from the conversation I had with some of them ,I was able to deduce that 90% of men are not fricked by facial beauty alone but some undisposable tools needed from a lady to sustain a relationship.
    With the interviews I had with them,here are some qualities that impress them and also make the lady worthful and respected.

    She must be:-

    God fearing
    Caring and understanding
    Independent
    Industrious
    Presentable
    Hardworking

    Romantic
    Believe in the man’s dreams
    Observant and have foresight
    Be able to cook and take care of the house
    Love his family and be
    Cheerful.

    However,for a lady that wants to attract a responsible man,she has to work on herself by checking the qualities she has out of these. A lady might not possess all but at least average men wants 50% of these qualities.So having done your part,you will definitely attract men who will appreciate all these qualities and he will be ready to go extra miles for you.But all the same carefulness before you say I do because there are some men who will pretend to be godly only because they want to rob you of your destiny.so ladies,be WISE and be CAREFUL!

    UNDERSTANDING YOUR SEXUALITY


    I remember the story about an old hermit and his son who lived far back in the mountains, away from any other human beings.The boy had never seen another person besides his father.On the boy’s 18th bbirthday,his father decided to take him to town to give him the first taste of civilization.Walking down the street,they passed a couple of pretty girls and the boy in amazement said “what in the world are those?” The old man was caught off guard ,”Er,Uh………That’s nothing,son, “he said,just a couple of geese”.The boy seemed to accept the explanation.So they went on.They both spent the full day browsing the town,visiting livery stables,saw-mill and the blacksmith shop.At last they decided to held for home.But before they left,his father said, “son I’d like to give you a birthday gift.Did you see anything here that you’d like to have?” “sure”,the boy said, “I want a couple of geese!”
    From this story we discovered that no matter who you are, or your background,we were all created to have affection for the opposite sex.So originally,God made male and female to have mutual bond of sexual relationship.

    SEXUAL DRIVE
    God made us sexual creature.Infact,one of the first instruction to man from God was to be fruitful and multiply(Gen1:28 ).A wise man said "when the purpose of a thing is unknown abuse is inevitable" .
    If whenever ones buys a machine it is usually advisable to read the manual before using it. Imagine someone buys a petrol generator and goes on to put diesel inside it, the generator will likely get damaged.
    Prov. 4:7 says, ‘wisdom is the principal thing’ therefore get wisdom in all your doing and endeavor, get understanding. when you pursue understanding you end up being outstanding, not understanding the purpose of sex has robbed many of their colorful destiny
    Everything in this world, operates within certain principles and rules. Sex has its own rules and principles written by the architect and the designer himself(GOD).
    Lets embark on this journey to unravel the mystery of the sexual dimension of man.

    THE 3 DIMENSION OF SEX
    1. The body- Sex involves the body. 1cor. 6:18 says flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body vs 16 says ‘or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her.
    Sex is a glue, It binds the body of both party to form one. Some people are carrying over six different bodies inside them because they have slept with 6people. They are carrying multiple bodies inside their own body. That’s why its possible to contact sexual transmitted disease like H.I.V during sex because it involves the body. Know this today, your body is joined to anyone you have sex with. Fornication is a punishment against your body in ignorance. You are wounding your body. Your body is designed to carry only one additional load which is your spouse but you can imagine someone that has been joined to 6 different bodies. That’s called an overload and it is dangerous. Sex affects your body.


    2. The soul- do you know it is possible to loose your soul? How you ask me? The bible says ‘what will it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose your soul’? The soul of a man is his greatest asset and that is what the devil wants to steal. The devil will give you anything in exchange for your soul, that is how valuable your soul is. But the problem is we don’t know how valuable it is.
    Prov. 6:32 says ‘whoever commits adultery with a woman LACKS understanding. He who does so destroys his own soul. Don’t let sex outside marriage destroy your soul. Your soul is more than just your emotions, it is the essence of your being. Eze 18:4b says, ‘… Behold all souls are mine… the soul who sins shall die’
    When you have sex with someone, it not only bounds your soul with the person’s soul it sets you on the path of destruction. Do you prefer to sell your eternal soul for enjoyment of 5mins like Esau who sold his birthright for a bowl of porridge. Your soul is more important than anything. KEEP IT WELL. Prov. 6:26 says, ‘For by means of a harlot a man is REDUCED to a crust of bread. And an adulteress will prey upon his own precious life.

    3. Your spirit- What do you think of your spirit? Prov. 20:27 says ‘ the spirit of man is the lamp of the lord. Searching all the inner depth of him. Sex is not just a physical thing , it is also a spiritual thing. 1Cor. 7:34 says, ‘The unmarried man cares about the thing of the lord , that she may be holy both in spirit and body
    Sexual sin affects the spirit. When Adam and eve sinned, the glory of God left them and they discovered they were naked. Ex. 10:8 says, ‘…Whoever breaks through a wall the serpent will bite, when someone commits a sexual sin, he/she opens up his or her spirit to attack by enemy. Prov. 25:28 says, ‘whoever has no rule over his own spirit, is like a city broken down without walls.
    Your spirit needs divine covering but the moment one commits a sexual sin that covering and protection is removed, hereby giving room for the enemy to come and steal and destroy ones destiny.

    EVENT ::: SINGLE AND SPECIAL'S SEMINAR TAGGED "LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX"


    SINGLE AND SPECIAL'S SEMINAR TAGGED "LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX" WAS A HUGE SUCCESS
    Thank God for the success of the last edition of Single and Special's seminar.We appreciate all the participants,our special guest,PAT UWAJE-KING,Speaker,MRS FAWOLE,comedy by KENNY BLACK,and the entire crew also.We appreciate everybody for their immense contribution to making the program a promise kept.God bless you all.

    PICTURES FROM THE EVENT